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10 Things Men Never Want Their Women To Say


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Gender differencesThere are certain things a man never wants to hear from his lady. “Let’s go shopping” is one of them, as those words usually herald a whole afternoon wasted near the women’s fitting rooms. “You’re acting like your father” is another, much harsher statement. Even worse, “You’re acting like my father”… that one just hurts.

Below, however, are the most fearsome, most harrowing combination of words a female can utter.

I’ve been thinking: If she actually tells you she’s been thinking, it’s serious. And you can bet it can involve marriage or engagement, or the bitter end, which means she is moving on. Queries like: “Why do you love me?” and “Have you ever thought about the future?” etc. leave a man in a tight spot. If you are not in the stage of taking a realistic decision then, have a brilliant exit plan at hand, a severed finger, for instance. If you think that you are prepared to get into a relationship, then its time to make the commitment.

Be a man: No man would like to hear this for sure. Nothing is quite as injurious as having your very manhood questioned. You could give in to her tactics and do what she wants, or deflect it back by saying, “How about you be a woman and quit nagging though that would be ironical?” might fetch some stone cold silence, which some men prefer instead of an outpour of questions.

The romance of rain and solitude


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paper boats in the rainMost of us love rain. There is something very romantic about standing in your balcony and feeling the cold breeze sprinkle your face with rain spray, while you sip a hot cuppa.
Just after some refreshing rain its a treat to see the greenery around smiling with a gratified sigh with their original lustre shimmering with pride. There is something cozy about curling up in warm clothes and reading a nice book in such weather.

When you are all by yourself, here are some romantic things you can do when it rains, to enjoy your solitude:

Open all the doors and windows in your house and feel the rain spray, …

Five things you should not say before your children


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Be warned!Children are probably the most sensitive entities you will ever encounter. As a parent, you will be familiar with the feeling that they are soaking up everything you say or do, observing the minutest details…

All the more reason for you to take great care of what is said in front of them. Here is a list to consider:

Never say to your child ‘I wish I had never had you!’. While every parent is excused for having such a feeling at least once with each child, (my own variation was the wish - ‘I wish I could return you back to the shop!’) saying such a thing out loud even once can be very harmful. Saying it regularly sows the seeds of a feeling of deep rejection in the child that affects his or her relationships with others lifelong.

Mothers in law are human too!


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Mother-in-law troublesMuch more money has probably been made, at least on the small screen, in recent times, by programmes that revolve around the mother-in-law daughter-in-law conflict, than programmes around any other topic, including love stories. It seems as if the tensions that arise in a household because of this relationship are a source of eternal fascination for us Indians.

Of course, if life were to seriously resemble the stuff we see in movies or on TV, we would all be in big trouble! But there are enough gory stories even in the daily papers, about¬†confrontations between mothers in law and daughters in law. The truth is, realtionships with mothers in law are always difficult, even for men. Why else would former England cricketer Ian Botham have got into such trouble for his remarks about a South Asian country? When speaking to a reporter,¬†Botham is said to have trashed this particular country, calling it a place to ’send your mother in law, all expenses paid’! Obviously, even sons in law have less than cordial feelings about their mothers in law.

Rules for Rage? You bet!


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communication It may seem weird but the truth is that the same rules apply to good communication when one is not angry, as apply to communication when one is angry! This means that politeness, consideration, sincerity and speaking the truth are important on both occasions. But how is one to remember this when one is in a raging temper - that too at something a partner has done? Can love survive this sense of complete exasperation with the behaviour, approach or habits of another?

Well, it depends…depends completely on how you have expressed yourself in the midst of a flaming row. Words are truly the most hurtful things invented - they can be embedded in the soft flesh of your brain and never get obliterated even by the most pleasant memories. And when they are accompanied by a set jaw, angry stare, flared nostrils - all the body language that conveys extreme fury, the effect is even more indelible. If ever there was a fit case for anger management, it is within an intimate relationship.