Dr. Kamaraj, M.D. Ph.D
Sexual Medicine and Infertility Specialist

Dr.T.Kamaraj M.B.B.S, M.D, PGDCG, Ph.D is a specialist consultant in “Human sexual problems & Infertility”. He did his M.B.B.S in Madras University (year-1985) and M.D in Dr.M.G.R Medical University. He also did a Post Graduate Diploma in Psychological Guidance & Counselling (PGDCG) and Ph.D in “Reproductive Medicine”. At present he is doing reaserach in “Human Reproductive Medicine”. You can post your queries on sexual health here.

Dr. Kamaraj’s responses on sexual health queries:  

Name:Sania   Age:27  Gender:F 

Q:Hello doctor, my marriage is 1 year old and now we don’t go for the intercourse, because I am so afraid of this, without any reason. Just listened from my friends that its painful. I don’t my husband for this. We are so worried about this problem. Please guide us for this. Thanks for your help.

A:You are suffering from psychological vaginismus. Aks  your husband  to insert one finger  inside the  vagina , later  you can  allow  two  fingers  and  three  fingers  then  he  can  insert  his penis. If this is not working, consult a sexologist.
Name:Rahulsingh      Age:21      Gender:M       Place:Jammue

Q:Sir I am a 21 yr old boy.Even at this age i have not completed my puberty.I have got very little facial hair and my muscular structure is not building as it should have.i am very much embarrased and disstressed by this problem. Sir please prescribe something that will me to quickly complete my puberty as soon as possible. thank you.

A:You  may  be  suffering  from  low  levels  of  hormones, (hypogonodotrophic  hypogonadism) you  need   physical  examination  and   a  hormone test.Once  we  asses the  condition  we  can  correct  your  problem, Consult  a sexologist  or  endocrinologist.
Name:lakshmi Age:35 Gender:F      
Q:I’m 35 female. I got married 3 months back. My husband is 37 years. We have not had sex yet. Tried but not successful. I’m a virgin. I’m afraid we both don’t know how to enjoy that. Kindly help.

A:Both of  you  can  try to understand  the anatomy  of  each  other and  relaxed  manner  you  can  try. If  it is  not  successful  consult  a sexologist. From  simple  ignorance  to  organic  vaginismus  can cause  this  problem.