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Be a pro at dating online


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Dating onlineLove it or hate it the internet is here to stay. It is the one stop shop for anything from dog food to would be husbands and wives. With changing lifestyles where busy is the buzzword the online dating sites are gaining immense popularity.  One must agree that though dating online is cool and comfortable it is not completely hassle free.

One of the biggest hassles is safety. Cyberspace is almost like the vast, unlimited universe and what’s more is that it offers anonymity. So, you cannot really be sure what you might be in for. Therefore, it is important to use a merry mix of head and heart when making choices online. Do not get swayed by a beautiful photograph try to go beyond what appears to be.

How to choose a dating website:

Now that you’ve decided to look for your date online. You need to choose a good dating website. It is a good idea to by word of mouth. On the other hand if you have to look for a site make sure you choose a site that has a privacy policy as well as a security policy. This will help you to avoid any kind of annoying or undesirable experience once you are logged in. They might even provide you with the option of blocking off people who you don’t want to interact with.

It is better to register with a website that has been around for a while as opposed to brand new ones.

Choosing the right dating partner:

If you have not found a suitable date even after many efforts the reason could be that you are loosing focus of what exactly you are looking for in a date. Sometimes people just get stuck and cannot move on because they keep dating the same person for the sake of dating. They loose focus of why they started looking for a date in the first place.

Minu says, “I knew I was not comfortable with this guy but things just rolled on and the poor fellow was so persistent that I didn’t want to hurt his feelings.” This seems to be the reason for a number of other girls I spoke to. But the thing to realize is that what they are getting stuck with are just casual dates and has nothing to do with the real emotional bonding.

When dating both men and women (though the latter are more prone to this trait) tend to put too much importance on what the other person is going to think. How he/ she is going to respond. And in the bargain we loose sight of the main purpose of the date which is whether the two people are able to connect to each other in a way that they want to.

Arjun says, “in my experience friends have said that after a few unsuccessful choices when they find someone, they tend to cling on to that date even though they may not be completely satisfied with the relationship.” This may not be the right attitude.

You need to have clarity about what is it that you are looking for in a date and move towards that goal with a single minded focus and surely you will find the ideal partner.

General dating tips:

  • Always post a photograph along with your profile. No pets, your favourite niece or group photograph. No exposure of any kind in the photographs. It might be a good idea to post more than one photograph. But too many is not a good idea. 
  • Write a good profile. Don’t fib and certainly don’t exaggerate.
  • If you are not comfortable chatting with somebody just block him/her off. Trust your instincts.
  • Do not exchange addresses over the internet.
  • Don’t rush into a physical meeting. Take time to get to know as much about the person as possible.
  • Don’t let yourself be talked into anything. Remember you are in charge!

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