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Archive for January, 2009

Latest trends in Wedding Jewellery


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Wedding jewelleryEvery woman looks her very best on her wedding day. And what adds to her glowing beauty is the wedding jewellary. The changing times, tastes, globalization and extreme economic scenarios, have all influenced the modern bride’s choice of jewellery. According to Preeti, a young bride to be and a budding fashion designer,” I love the heavy and stone studded jewellery that my grandmother and mother wore for their weddings. I wouldn’t mind wearing that stuff for my big day as well.”

The modern woman shares the same love and passion for jewellery like the older generations. But, she does not like stashing away her jewellery in a vault. She wants to wear it regularly. Besides, western clothes are steadily gaining popularity among the younger generation and heavy, chunky don’t compliment that kind of clothing.

According to Ms. Mala Chinappa, “Today’s woman wants jewellery that can be worn as a fashion statement, everyday. This change of taste is mainly because more and more women are working these days. So, they have more exposure. And the economic independence they enjoy is probably the reason that they are ready to experiment. Besides, inter caste marriages are also becoming commonplace. All these factors have influenced a lady’s choice of wedding jewellery as well. These days people go beyond the tali, six bangles, two rings and the diamond earring which constituted the traditional wedding jewellery package.”

For that perfect packaging


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Gift WrappingJust as clothes make a person so too packaging does for gifts. Everybody loves to receive gifts and when they are enticingly wrapped it becomes doubly alluring.

When you put so much thought and effort to choose the perfect gift it is even more important to embellish it and make it attractive. After all, what you gift reflects who you are and how you gift wrap it makes a statement of your personality. It is like having a party with great food but using shabby cutlery. Just as there is etiquette for dining, so also there is decorum for gifting and gift wrapping.

Mital Surendra’s Sanskritti is a one stop shop for all your gifting and packaging needs.
From ornate boxes and intricately designed gift trays to handcrafted gift hampers to brocaded jewel boxes to decorative thorans and eco friendly tambulam bags - whatever be the occasion – engagements, weddings, anniversaries, birthday parties and baby/bridal showers – you name it and she has it.

Do you forgive an Affair?


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Forgive an affairIt depends on various factors. Firstly, will you be able to forgive and forget. Secondly, will the aberrant abstain from doing such deeds in future? Thirdly, will you as a victim be able to prevent withholding a grudge and resume normal marriage?

It is a complex situation further precipitated when children are involved. Assess what stage is the marriage in? How far the relationship is with either spouse or mistress? Affairs cannot be segregated as absolute black and white. There are shades of gray which need consideration.

This does not mean that an affair is permitted. “An affair is an aberration to normal behavior if we choose to exercise self control.” exclaims Latha Nithyanand, clinical psychologist and counselor. She explains that as long as we follow baser instincts then we use the mating needs to have an affair. Even in animals, sex is only a means of procreation. Human beings are the only species that employ sex for pleasure. Given such, “it is imperative that we use our discretion.” says Latha.

When people have affairs?


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Affair‘It doesn’t happen to Me.’- the refrain provides a false sense of security from facing the harsh realities of life. Nobody is immune from reality and that includes affairs too.

Prithvi’s profession involves a lot of travel abroad. He says, ‘When overseas I like to have a little fun to prevent getting bored. What my wife doesn’t know doesn’t hurt her.” The matter of fact response to keep the hearth and the pleasure business separate does not negate the wrongness of deed.

In another instance, Bala, a bank employee has affairs with his wife’s knowledge. He candidly states, “I told her that I will have flings.” That he does it with his wife’s consent and women consenting to such acts either indulging or witnessing affairs - does not detract the amoral nature of the relationship.

Why do people have affairs?


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AffairAdam ate the apple and knew what it meant to yield to temptation. Affairs are a lure of the forbidden. The yearning to court danger and indulge in unacceptable pursuits is what makes up for the fantasy element.

“The act of getting away with something unacceptable increases the thrill.” says Latha Nithyanand, clinical psychologist and marriage counselor. She adds, the society has been indulgent towards men and hence they have the unofficial license to stray. However, on a psychological level, “it is running away from responsibility.’ she says.

One of the flimsiest reasons to have an affair - is an unhappy marriage. The dissatisfaction either real or perceived is cited frequently as the single most reason to look beyond the marriage. Statistics reveal that 92 to 93 percent of individuals have had an affair (including a one night stance) at some point of time in their life.