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Archive for August, 2009

Healing a broken heart


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Relationship break-upThe effect of a break-up between a man and a woman can be equated to a “loss” in one’s life. A person’s sense of belonging has severed - the fundamental bridge which connects two people – trust - has broken.

This has long-term repercussions on a person as one loses a sense of trust in others, an essential part of any relationship. If this remains unresolved, the person could turn into a distrustful person for life, caution Chennai-based counsellors.

Moreover, the insecurity level in the person who is “dumped” is high. They go through a terrible sense of low esteem, questioning one’s self-worth, dislike themselves and imagine a cruel prank is played on them.

Says Dr Abilasha, Chennai-based psychologist, an MSc practising for eight years, “The initial reaction is to block it all out. Their thinking capacity stops, they don’t want to live the reality and believe someone is playing a prank.”

Communication and commitment in married life


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CoupleA marriage counselor once said - Marriage is the commitment that two individuals promise to one another and the trust they repose on each other. Where there is commitment there is love and respect.

Commitment and Trust are the two pillars of the institution called marriage. To be committed you need to trust. Trustworthiness happens only when there is honesty.. Honesty implies integrity of character.

To be honest you need to be transparent. In other words, you need to bare your soul to your partner. There is no room here for sifting and talking. You will have to talk and thrash out issues to emerge stronger. If there are hidden depths in the marriage it leads to distrust and insecurity. Insecurity breeds lack of commitment.

How to get along with you mother-in-law


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Mother-in Law‘As If and if only’ (As if - is for the possibility of getting along with her. If only – is, there have been innumerable suggestions given on perfecting the balancing act and yet there is need for more…). That’s a ‘big IF’, mind you on both counts. World over if at all there is unity among women it is about ‘the m-in-law’ factor. It is the bane of every woman who sees her macho male go putty in his mommy’s hands much to our dismay. For the mother (in law) it is her ultimate achievement, her crowning glory to be in control of her son. She knows to push his buttons and that necessarily need not be in favor to you. So how to win over this matron (some would call her the wicked witch! I wouldn’t go that far, because I too have a son!)

First and foremost, don’t get into the marriage with any preconceived notions. Bias is very often the culprit for souring relationships. Keep an open mind.

When talking to your m-i-l dear, approach her with kindness. Empathy goes a long way in softening even the strongest of hearts. After all, she too has been a d-i-l once. Having said that, this does not mean you are a door mat. You need to look after your self esteem too. 

Gems to enrich loving relationship


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Rose quartzThere are specific gems and stones that balance and support loving relationships, especially between you and your spouse. Some of the more common stones can be placed in the bedroom, in a small decorative bowl or in a saucer on your nightstand by the bed. You can create a collection of a variety of complementary stones, too. Stones can be purchased as larger pieces for display, or they can be worn as beads in a necklace, bracelet, or ring and kept on your Relationship Altar in your offering tray when you are not wearing them.

Rose quartz promotes romantic love as well as self-love and acceptance. It is the stone of forgiveness, humility, and patience. It teaches us to open our hearts and to be tender, peaceful, and gentle. This is a fairly inexpensive stone and can be worn as a bracelet or a necklace. When not being worn, place rose quartz by your bed for peace and serenity, or add it to your offering tray on your Relationship Altar. Tuck a piece of tumbled rose quartz into each of the four corners of your bedroom to encourage loving relationships in your life.

Finding out your dream partner


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Dream PartnerA soul mate is a person that matches your ‘being’ your ‘ideas’ in life or your ’style’.

A soul mate is one that also makes you feel complete when you are with that person. A soul mate doesnt have to like everything that you do, but you enjoy doing things together.

Your soul mate is going to make you feel comfortable with who you are, is not going to try and change you, and your soul mate is a person that you don’t want to change either. Your soul mate is someone you are happy with as things are.

Is there any such thing as a soul mate?

Yes, there are soul mates for everyone in the world. While some people are lucky to find their soul mate early on in life, others may have to search for their soul mate.

You will find that you may find your soul mate in the least likely place or in the least likely person, but you will find someone who can love you and care for you when you need them.