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Dream PartnerA soul mate is a person that matches your ‘being’ your ‘ideas’ in life or your ’style’.

A soul mate is one that also makes you feel complete when you are with that person. A soul mate doesnt have to like everything that you do, but you enjoy doing things together.

Your soul mate is going to make you feel comfortable with who you are, is not going to try and change you, and your soul mate is a person that you don’t want to change either. Your soul mate is someone you are happy with as things are.

Is there any such thing as a soul mate?

Yes, there are soul mates for everyone in the world. While some people are lucky to find their soul mate early on in life, others may have to search for their soul mate.

You will find that you may find your soul mate in the least likely place or in the least likely person, but you will find someone who can love you and care for you when you need them.

A soul mate is a person who you love and loves you back for no reason at all, just because you have found each other, and just because you are connecting with each other. A soul mate is deeper than lust and sex, but a soul mate is a person who can look into your eyes, and know what you are thinking or feeling without your even saying it aloud.

When you find a soul mate, you will feel something that you have never felt before. Finding your soul mate will depend on where you go daily, what you do in life, how open you are with others, and how trusting you are, in giving yourself freely to others (in terms of feelings, sharing, talking, listening and learning about each other).

If you are a very closed person, shy person, or if you have problems communicating with others, you may find it more difficult to find your soul mate. However, a key to finding your soul mate and attracting a soul mate is going to be based on your will power, and your determination.

Don’t give up. Think positive, and be positive in life. Positive thoughts and actions are going to create positive reactions in your life!

How do you spend your time?

Look at where you spend your time. Do you go to work, the gym, to church, home, and to the store daily or weekly? These are places where you can meet and talk with others, and perhaps find your soul mate. The first step in meeting your soul mate is getting to know other people in general.

The more people that you meet, the more people that you talk with, the more confident you are in life and the more appealing you will be when you meet that person who is possibly your soul mate. Think about saying hello to just two new people a day! Just two people, anywhere that you go, this is going to give you an opportunity to strike up a conversation, and to expand your friendships.

Many soul mates are discovered from friendships. Get to know the people you work with, the people who are your neighbors, and the people that got to the same places you do in life.

Who are the people that you know?

Find and attract your soul mate by reviewing those people you know and love already in life. As we mentioned before, many soul mates find each other through blossoming friendships.

This may or may not be your situation, but will certainly give you the opportunity to think about the people you know, and whom you may want to get to know better on a different, and deeper level. Attract your soul mate by listening to what others in your life want, think about, and respect, and then become that person.

For example, if your friends feel that going to the soup kitchen and volunteering on a monthly basis is important, you should also join in and see what all the fuss is about.

As you join in another activity you are learning more about your friends, and you are showing more about whom you are. If your soul mate is someone who is in this circle of friends, you may get to know each other better than before, which is the first step in attracting your soul mate.

Learn about yourself and listen to others

Finding your soul mate is all about learning about who you are and where you want to go in life. If you love yourself, and if you are confident, about whom you are, your soul mate, when you meet that person, is going to be attracted to those solid qualities in your life. If you are not open to meeting others, to listening, and in talking with others, you will find it difficult to attract any new friends, which limits your ability to reach a soul mate in life.

Recognizing your soul mate

How are you going to know your soul mate when you first meet him or her?

You will feel a spark, energy when the two of you talk. You will feel as if you matter when you are talking about any subject, and you will be truly interested in what the other person has to say.

While it could be just for a split second, or it could be all night long, you have to think about that special feeling and capturing it again.

Take control of your destiny and in finding your soul mate by leaning to listen to what others are saying, and to how it could possibly change your life overall.

Listening to another person teaches you a great deal about who they are and where they are heading in life.

Changing you to attract others in life

Find and attract your soul mate by changing those things about yourself that you don’t life the most. For example, if you have always wanted to lose ten pounds, do it. If you have always wanted contacts, do it.

If you want to head out to the singles club and dance the night away, do it. Something you have always wanted to do can change yourself; change your confidence levels, and all while giving you the chance to meet others at the same time. Open yourself to being who you really want to be, not someone that you think others want you to become.

Be open about yourself and honest with others

Attracting your soul mate is much easier when you are honest with yourself and with others in your life. If you are not ‘true to yourself’, being whom you want to be – then others are going to find you to be a fake person.

Tell no lies, be honest about your mistakes in life, and that you have learned from those mistakes. As you become more comfortable with yourself, where you have been in life, and where you are going, you become more confident and easy to understand.

Your soul mate is going to find you attractive because you are honest, open and you are willing to be up front with your feelings.

While this may sound easy, it is not. It takes work to be honest about your life, and what you have done in the past. You don’t have to dwell or be proud of your past to be honest, open and able to move past a mistake to move on in life.

For example, if you have a child, and you are not married, being open, honest, and up front with others about that is going to earn you respect, as you have grown from the point of being unwed, to a point of being responsible for another person.

Your soul mate will find this attractive and will want to get to know you better because you are upfront about your life.

Attract your soul mate when you least expect it

If you are constantly on the look out for your special soul mate, you may be looking too hard. In your search for happiness in life, you want to live life, without feeling the pressure.

Often times, you will find a new friend, a new love, and perhaps even your soul mate when you least expect it. Think about this: you slide on the ice, and your car hits a truck in an intersection.

There are no major damages, no one is hurt but you have to get out and talk with the other person. Now, it is up to you to make something positive out of this situation.

Be nice, smile, and exchange information in regards to the accident. Never be rude, if you can avoid it, and while you are waiting for the police to make up the report about the accident, make small talk with the other person. One great philosophy to remember in life is that everything happens for a reason.

Perhaps your car hit that truck because of fate. You were meant to meet and know this person. Take advantage of every opportunity in life, and something great will happen when you least expect it!

A few final thoughts about finding and attracting your soul mate

Do something for yourself, to better yourself, and you will become more attractive to others. Do something for someone else who may not have as much as you in life, and others will realize how valuable your actions are making you more attractive in life.

Become the person who is outgoing and says hello to everyone. The more people you get to know in life, the better your chances are for finding your soul mate, as you open yourself to opportunities in life.

Be patient with your life. Not everyone is going to find their soul mate early on in life; many people don’t find that special someone until other obstacles in life are completed. Be patient and keep your mind open to other things in life that will occupy your time as well.

Listen to your heart. You may find yourself in a relationship, but you aren’t truly feeling them. You will want to follow your heart. Your heart is an internal guide that will allow you to find the path to your soul mate.

Give everyone a chance. You may know someone and not even realize that they are your soul mate. The most unusual places; the ones that you would never think about, would actually be somewhere you could find your soul mate.

Go against your normal status of acceptable dates and take a chance. It may turn into something much more than just conversation; they may be your soul mate!


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