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The changing face of sexual norms


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Changing face of sexual normsThose were the days when love, romance and innocence were all part of one treasured package. Eager to explore the mystery of sex but too petrified about the outcome, you remained what you were meant to remain – a virgin till marriage happened. I’m speaking about life in the 60s through the mid 70s.

Like most girls of my age (I was 19 then), I had an ideal – to relate closely with a man emotionally first and only then physically. Given the potent attraction that the opposite sex held for us, one never forgot that sex was trouble and female sexuality, dangerous. If you were smart, you necked, you kissed and allowed his hands to probe a bit, but you held on tenaciously to the most important thing in your life as a woman – your virginity!

In the circles that I moved in, there were however, some couples who went beyond the prescribed limits of ‘decency’. But even for them, sex had to have an emotional resonance. Hardly ever did a woman relinquish her virginity with ease. And if you had indulged in premarital sex and people got to know about it, it most certainly put you beyond the pale.

A Woman and her Handbag


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HandbagNo matter how smart and savvy a man may be about the woman in his life and how knowledgeable he gets about every small relationship that matters to her, he really knows nothing if he hasn’t figured out the biggest relationship in her life. If you haven’t guessed it yet, I’m talking about a woman’s undying relationship with her friend of all times, her handbag!
 
Shapes and sizes may change, a glamourous Prada or Fendi may give way to a desi tote picked up from the fashion streets of Bombay or Delhi… whatever the brand, a woman’s handbag still remains a woman’s greatest ally and indispensable friend.

Even if one never stops to ask how handbags came to be a woman’s number one love, one simply knows that a woman without a bag is more than just incomplete… almost like a peacock without its fancy tail.

Dealing with Disagreeable People


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Disagreeable PeopleThey lurk everywhere. In the crooks and corners of everyday life, the winding corridors of power and fame and even in the cocoon of your home and hearth. I’m talking about those disagreeable people who often surface in our lives to jolt us out of our silly illusions about the Buddha nature that is alive and kicking in every human being.

And the sad part is that they remain an integral part of our lives. Only those mortals who have an extraordinary dollop of luck on their side can ever hope to never experience the burden of their company.

How many of us have not encountered the meanness in someone who will have everything her own way and who cannot brook the slightest show of opposition? I know a few such people and I must confess I’m scared to death of being in their vicinity for any length of time. I vividly recall the scathing comments of one such miserable, so called friend of mine. (Experts believe it is their own unacknowledged misery and deep self-contempt that causes people to be cruel and disagreeable).

The Ten Rules of Sex Etiquette


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Sex EtiquetteCongratulations! So you’ve made it from that awkward stage of post acquaintanceship to something more meaningful. On the way you’ve made a world of discoveries about each other, which have made you both feel the spark that brought you together might blaze into a beautiful conflagration of desire. Great. Now, you’re moving towards the most exciting and private of domains – the bedroom.

With bated breath and pent up excitement you’ve gotten past your million inhibitions and made it to the point where you need to merge in every which way – literally. Could anything now go awry for either of you? Not if you observe certain basic rules of sex etiquette and know that men and women are wired differently.

Understanding the mystique of Sexual chemistry


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Sexual ChemistryHave you ever observed the vibes in a room when two people who’ve got this special something going between them, happen to be there at the same time? They may not be going steady with each other nor even be people who in normal circumstances might choose each other as partners, but yet there is this certain tautness, a certain intangible but palpable energy that passes between them and you can somehow feel it.

There is a much touted word that best describes this condition. It’s called sexual chemistry. Even if you choose to omit out the sexual part of it, there’s no denying the fact that sexual attraction has a lot to do with this condition.