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The Power of Word


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The Power of WordDictionary defines - Word as ‘a unit of spoken language’. At a communicative level, the word signifies so much more. It has the power – to heal or hurt. Words joined together form a sentence. That’s just syntax and grammar. But the meaning of those words, it is that which has connotations and consequences. The best part is we all know it and yet we do it time and again.

Why do we ‘hurt’ by words when we know it is so much more afflicting than physical bruises? An African tribe - when they want to cut off a tree they don’t chop it instead they curse the tree and mouth filthy language. The tree in a few days dies by itself. If that is true of the tree what fate is in store for us? The worst part, it is the defenseless who are affected the most. The most vulnerable are targeted maximum. Why? Is it to show who the boss is. Is it a power struggle?

Telling a person that he or she is not fit or useless will not serve the purpose other than to bring down their self-esteem. Well, if that’s your intention then you’ve not scored brownie point from me definitely. My grandpa used to say, “By saying hopeless, will it make the person better?”

Your worth in gold - say it lightly


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Light weight jewelryAt a time when the whole world is looking at smaller, sleeker, lighter inventions to make life simpler, classier and better; it is no wonder that the new age diva is looking for the same in gold. What could be better than having gold jewelry in lighter variations that are contemporary and stylish? Of course, the fact that it comes pocket friendly too is only an icing on the frosting.

In keeping with global trends, it can actually be said that the shape of gold has taken a beating (forgive the pun) to make it more alluring by introducing innovative designs that are haute couture. This chic look signifies that the Indian woman is ready to take her gold out of the closet and flaunt it to the world. To do so would mean, gold should be made suitable for everyday wear.

Unlike in western countries, where designs are made avant gard in 18K gold, Indian women still prefer their jewelry to be made in conventional 22K. The only concession allowed is in making them lighter. Even then, the preference is for “sturdy looking but light weight” jewelry.

Communication and commitment in married life


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CoupleA marriage counselor once said - Marriage is the commitment that two individuals promise to one another and the trust they repose on each other. Where there is commitment there is love and respect.

Commitment and Trust are the two pillars of the institution called marriage. To be committed you need to trust. Trustworthiness happens only when there is honesty.. Honesty implies integrity of character.

To be honest you need to be transparent. In other words, you need to bare your soul to your partner. There is no room here for sifting and talking. You will have to talk and thrash out issues to emerge stronger. If there are hidden depths in the marriage it leads to distrust and insecurity. Insecurity breeds lack of commitment.

How to get along with you mother-in-law


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Mother-in Law‘As If and if only’ (As if - is for the possibility of getting along with her. If only – is, there have been innumerable suggestions given on perfecting the balancing act and yet there is need for more…). That’s a ‘big IF’, mind you on both counts. World over if at all there is unity among women it is about ‘the m-in-law’ factor. It is the bane of every woman who sees her macho male go putty in his mommy’s hands much to our dismay. For the mother (in law) it is her ultimate achievement, her crowning glory to be in control of her son. She knows to push his buttons and that necessarily need not be in favor to you. So how to win over this matron (some would call her the wicked witch! I wouldn’t go that far, because I too have a son!)

First and foremost, don’t get into the marriage with any preconceived notions. Bias is very often the culprit for souring relationships. Keep an open mind.

When talking to your m-i-l dear, approach her with kindness. Empathy goes a long way in softening even the strongest of hearts. After all, she too has been a d-i-l once. Having said that, this does not mean you are a door mat. You need to look after your self esteem too. 

Pick out the perfect place to tie the knot


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Jaipur  PalaceMarriages are indeed made in heaven. But the actual wedding takes place on earth. It is precisely for this reason why probably more and more couples are in search for the perfect place to wed.

No longer is it passé to have a wedding in a church or mandap. While there is nothing wrong with those either and a good many are having their weddings in these places, increasingly couples are on the look out for unique places to make their weddings memorable, one of a kind.

Basically the choice of venue depends on the number of invitees and the affordability factor also plays a crucial role in this decision making. However, there seems to be a trend to splurge since it is once in a lifetime event.

Initially, weddings happened in the wedding halls. Later they were conducted in banquet halls which later graduated to five star hotels to farm houses. Today, having weddings in palaces seem to be the ‘in’ thing.