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Learn Techniques of conflict Management


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Conflict ManagementArguments are evident in most relationships. Some people choose to avoid them at all costs, and never express their opinion. Others dominate an argument with insults and aggressive intimidation. These types of behavior can be detrimental to the relationship. But there is such a thing as healthy arguing. This takes practice and is a learned skill, but utilizing the techniques described in the article can make arguments much less painful, and infinitely more productive.

Conflicts can be scary and cause hostility, anger and resentment. Often yelling results. It is said that communication is inversely connected to the volume of the speaker ( i.e. the louder the speaker yells, the less is understood by the listener). With this in mind the following eight steps should be used in a quiet voice to enhance the effectiveness of your conflict management style.

Take responsibility for the problem. It may not be your fault, but if in your mind you take the blame, it is less likely the conflict will accelerate. People often feel defensive in conflicts, but if one individual is willing to approach the conflict with statements and attitudes that suggest responsibility the whole ordeal will move more smoothly. One way of accomplishing this is by using “I” statements. These statements are to replace “you” statements which cast blame on others.

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What makes an understanding couple


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Agree to disagreeHow many times have you heard this catch phrase - ‘Agree to disagree’? It usually comes at the tail end of an argument when one person irritated and frustrated that they cannot impose their point of view says “Cant we just agree to disagree?” Although in theory it is a good thing to be able to do; few people understand what it actually means to agree to disagree!

Agree to disagree does not mean that we just give up on an argument that we feel is important and then hold onto resentment, anger, irritation, frustration or pain because of it. It also doesn’t mean that we give in, say we are sorry, or feel that we have done something wrong in thought or action. It simply means that we understand we will be unable to see eye to eye and that it is okay to just disagree on certain things in life. The funny thing is that we are able to do this all the time with our friends, teachers, strangers - but are very rarely able to do it with our spouses or family. For some reason many of us are inflated with this idea that because we are married or because we are flesh and blood – we must agree on everything.

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How To Get Along With Your Mother-In-Law


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MILsWe all know and understand that we will all meet a few people in our lifetime that we do not get on with. In usual practices, the best (and most popular) idea is to disassociate yourself with them or just be pleasant rather that cause a scene every time you see them. But it’s hard to ignore or disassociate yourself from your mother-in-law.

The chances are that people would have noticed your dislike for her, so trying to hide it will get you nowhere. Of course this doesn’t mean being nasty is going to work either, but actually understanding what it is about her that you dislike will help you in the future.

Your husband wants to see his whole family unite. How do you think it makes him feel seeing the two most important women in his life bicker and argue on sight? A few guidelines and tips can help you to get along with your mother-in-law, after all she isn’t going anywhere so you’ll just have to live with her – you can make it easy or hard for yourself.

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Advice for Dealing with New Relationships


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Couple arguingWhen we are actively dating we sometimes forget what the end game is all about - relationships. We can forget why we are dating in the first place and what we hope to achieve. The result of this is that when we finally meet someone we like and spend time with them and start falling in love, we panic. This doesn’t just apply to the archetypal male, but to women too.

Yes getting involved is scary stuff. Remember this why you are dating in the first place. The end result of dating is a relationship, maybe a long term one, maybe a relationship even leading to marriage. Therefore take your time and get it right.

We can argue all day about when dating becomes a relationship. Maybe after 3 months, maybe after sex. Maybe after meeting their parents, even after moving in together. For some a relationship begins at engagement, for others it occurs the moment the other party agrees to see them again. It doesn’t matter. One day, we all accept that today we are in a  relationship. Okay what should we do to sustain it?

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Learning From Others Can Improve Your Relationship


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Arguing coupleRelationships have many faces. Sometimes it looks like a perfect round with no sharp edges. Other times it is a shape full of edges that hurt. Every relationship has ups and downs. But some relationships have more downs and practically no ups. Such relationship can take a big mental toll. They are also very bad for career. How to avoid having lows and have more ups in a relationship? Let us learn from others.

They are always arguing

You may know some couples that are famous for arguments. Those couples never agree on anything. None of the partners will agree with others choice or opinions. They argue endlessly about smallest thing and exhaust themselves. Such couples do not refrain from arguments even in presence of others. What can we learn from such couples?

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