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Before marriage: To confess or not to confess?


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To confess or not to confessIn the past, there was an indulgent saying: you can tell a hundred lies to get a marriage done. This saying might not hold well in today’s world, where people don’t take it lightly if they feel cheated. But, as our lives get more complex and marriages are built on more precarious ground, the question to ask is: does it work for a girl to bare her soul about a past love affair or an ugly truth about her family to her husband-to-be before marriage?

Counsellors will caution you to first understand the person you are about to wed, to know and learn his personality and nature, before trying to be Ms Honesty Blaise. Is he the understanding kind or is he a volatile person who might fly off the handle and lash out at you? Or, does he fall somewhere in between and you are unsure about his reaction? Frankly, the situation varies with each person. 

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Healing a broken heart


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Relationship break-upThe effect of a break-up between a man and a woman can be equated to a “loss” in one’s life. A person’s sense of belonging has severed - the fundamental bridge which connects two people – trust - has broken.

This has long-term repercussions on a person as one loses a sense of trust in others, an essential part of any relationship. If this remains unresolved, the person could turn into a distrustful person for life, caution Chennai-based counsellors.

Moreover, the insecurity level in the person who is “dumped” is high. They go through a terrible sense of low esteem, questioning one’s self-worth, dislike themselves and imagine a cruel prank is played on them.

Says Dr Abilasha, Chennai-based psychologist, an MSc practising for eight years, “The initial reaction is to block it all out. Their thinking capacity stops, they don’t want to live the reality and believe someone is playing a prank.”

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Why marriage counseling is effective?


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Marriage CounselingMarriage counseling can prove very effective for those couples that are finding trouble in their marriage lives and in finding effective ways of communication among themselves.

Many times it is almost impossible to find a solution from within the house. In these times it is better to seek help from outside. Help from outside does not mean you grab anybody and start discussing your problems with them in order to find a solution.

This outside perspective should be of someone who is an expertise or trained in handling such problems. These experts are also called marriage counselors. The first doubt that arises in one`s mind is how to find such counselors. Different people have different ideals and values in their lives. The marriage counselors also have certain priorities.

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Marry in haste, repent at leisure


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Pre-marital counselingLet the old saying affect your wedding. Marriage is a commitment, a life-long commitment. Looking beyond the sparkle and romance of a wedding, it is important that we get into the nitty-gritty of what makes a marriage last. Rosemary John finds out the importance of undertaking pre-marital counseling, which helps to prepare couples for the sanctity of marriage, and a long and happy wedded life thereafter.

The institution of marriage has weakened substantially over the past years. People are marrying later; fewer are getting married; and many of those who do, often land up in divorce court. Have we ever wondered and given a serious thought as to why this is happening? As a life-long commitment and a sacred institution, marriage too requires a serious preparation. “In our country,” rues Dr. Madhavi Desai, a marriage counselor with the family court, “this system of pre-marital counseling is yet to be introduced and understood. Apart from churches and religious institutions, we find such sessions conducted only in private NGOs,” she adds.

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Premarital counseling


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Premarital counselingMarriages are made in heaven. And suffered on earth. This may make for an interesting graffiti board reading, but reality is somewhat an eye-opener.

The chances of a marriage ending in a divorce are increasing at an alarming rate. In such a scenario, isn’t premarital counseling worth all the time spent on it?

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