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What happens when your husband disappoints you?


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DisappointmentYou feel let down because you expected in the first place. Expectations happen only when we are secure about the relationship. There is an element of  ’taking for granted’ when there is intimacy, involved.

Disappointments happen only when there are unrealistic expectations. Just like imagination has no boundaries, expectation has no limits. Adding fuel to the fire is the fantasy fiction and celluloid drama that can fan the angst of failed expectations.

Radhika was jolted out of her reverie when Bhaskar became the ‘typical husband’. Definition of ‘typical’ being – get up, go to work, come back late and relax at home. Their typical conversation started with ‘what’s for breakfast and ended with have you paid the bills’. While she stewed being at home, he was happy outside working. Or so she thought.

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Expectations in a Marriage


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Expectations in marriage‘Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus’ is oft repeated refrain whenever there is a conflict of interests in a marriage. Expectations are well… only to be expected!!! After all you expect to get married only once in your lifetime!!! But as expectations go there is bound to be disappointments. It is inevitable. We even expect them – the disappointments.

Nisha Varadarajan bride to be says, “It’s been drummed into me not to expect anything and that I should put my husband and his family first.” This is a familiar scenario and one of the reasons for bickering and dissatisfaction in a marriage. The girl morphs into a faceless identity depending on her many roles in her husband’s family.

But, looking from the man’s point of view- hey! He is equally apprehensive about living up to the expectations of his prospective wife. Nirmal Krishnan, a newly married guy says in a hassled tone, “Whatever I do is never enough for her. How does she expect me to drop all that I know and love and go behind her like a puppy?” Fie on you, Nirmal! Remember you couldn’t wipe off that silly goofy grin on your face when you got engaged!

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Intimacy, the sign of a good marriage


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IntimacyOurs is a relationship that spans more than just a length of time. We’ve shared huge slices of life between us, the three of us. And we’ve been there for each other through the conflicts and pain of failed emotional involvements, the hurts and disappointments along the way and the highs that took us altogether on a different plane of euphoria. But today is a day we wish had never happened.

Runi, the youngest of us three has finally thrown in the towel. “I’m getting out of this marriage,” she declares, her red rimmed eyes brimming over with tears. We’ve heard this before, only this time we know it’s different — she’s serious.

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Unconditional Love


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Ice-cream parlourThe first time he saw her after she had walked out of his life was at Nirula’s, a popular ice-cream parlour in Delhi. He had recognized her even at that distance, noticed her long hair wound into a bun at the nape of her neck. Suddenly she turned and saw him. The look on her face told him she didn’t know what to do. He sensed rather than saw the beginnings of a small tentative smile making its appearance. He pushed forward ignoring the protests of the other people waiting in the queue ahead of him till he was next to her.

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Rearview Mirror Driving


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Rear-View Mirror DrivingFor nearly a year after the end of her nine-year-old relationship with Amit, Naina used to have attacks of tearfulness and despair at unexpected times and places. “I truly never knew when I would begin to feel really sad – sad enough to cry. It could happen any time, in a meeting at office, on my way to meet some friends, browsing in a book shop, I really never knew when I would begin to feel that wave of despair, as if life would never be as good as it had once been.” When these waves of depression and anxiety began to take a toll of her health and professional life, Naina sought help. “More than anything the doctor prescribed for my depression, what worked was the discipline she imposed on my thoughts,” she recalls. “ ‘Stop living as if you are driving a car only by looking in the rear-view mirror’ she told me.

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