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Top Six Reasons To Forgive


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ForgiveNo one can change the past, but you do have the power to upgrade how you feel about it, and that makes all the difference.

You can take your power back from all those painful memories, and make peace with your past. Forgiveness heals the guilt and the hurt, and does this quietly, privately, and thoroughly. Forgiveness does not mean that you let anyone off the hook, it means that your present happiness is more important than your past suffering. Forgiveness does not mean that you condone the hurtful things done to you, it means that you reclaim your right to run your own life.

Right now those hurtful things are running your life, and how is that working for you? The people who hurt you may have ruined your yesterdays, but only you are in charge of your tomorrows. And if you feel guilt over people that you have hurt, forgiving yourself will heal you and allow you to move forward with a happier attitude and a healthier body.

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Forgiving infidelity


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ForgivenessThe drama and the trauma of infidelity is one of the leading causes of relationship failure and divorce. Needs are not being met and sought elsewhere, whether emotionally or physically and pain is inflicted on not only the other partner, but on the partner who had the affair as well.

Not every relationship can endure the pain of infidelity, but the strength and resolve of both partners in rebuilding the foundations of love, trust, and respect through open communications can certainly be accomplished with a sincere effort. Of course, there are cons in contrast with the pros of forgiving infidelity; consider the consequences of the positives and the negative results of each major aspect in a relationship.

Communication breakdown will effectively terminate a relationship in its entirety. When neither partner has a desire to communicate their ill feeling with the other, it eventually leads to more hostility and potential termination in and of the relationship in the future.

By comparison, it is vital that both parties communicate their feelings, their fears, and any angst with each other in order to quell any lingering doubts or hurt feelings. Sincerity in communication instills a sense of openness with one another in the healing relationship, and for many years afterwards.

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Forgiveness in marriage


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Forgiving hands“Excuse me, screamed Swati. What exactly do you mean when you say that the past is the past? Why don’t you try forgiving and forgetting and starting on a fresh page? I can never forgive the way he just played the role of a silent audience when his mum got at me at every opportunity. I can never forget his lack of sensitivity when he saw me spending sleepless nights because of what I had to go through each day. I think it would have been easier to forgive if he had suggested suicide instead.”

Swati has been married for fifteen years now and she has been living in a nuclear family setup for the past ten years. Her husband finally responded to her feelings by moving out with her. Yet, their relationship with each other is far from being cordial.

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Golden rules of breaking up


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Relationship break upThe papers sometimes speak of revenge of the kind usually taken by a thwarted or rejected lover or ex husband or wife. While some take to stalking, others send abusive e-mails, and still others try to poison the relationship that their ex-partner may have formed with another, by spreading vicious rumours, or in confrontations that are full of harsh accusation.

Fortunately, most of us do not take similar routes out of the frustration and anger, sadness and bitterness we feel when breaking up with someone we have invested our love in for whatever period. As thinking and feeling adults we should have the ability to take things in our stride and move on in a positive way. This is because how we break up, and how we recover from a break up is very important from the viewpoint of our own further growth and our understanding with the opposite sex. Feelings of blame or rejection, of loss and betrayal, have to be dealt with and put aside before we can be fresh, trusting, hopeful and happy once again.

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ON SCREEN - Bheja Fry


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Bheja FryFilm : Bheja Fry
Starring : Rajat Kapoor, Ranvir Sheorey, Sarika, Vinay Pathak, Milind Soman
Director: Rajat Kapoor

Bheja Fry is supposed to be a comedy and there are those who might perceive it to be so. But with a brilliantly funny star cast that could have done wonders for it , the film somehow underutilizes their capacities.

The story is set in Mumbai where a young couple (Sarika and Rajat) are part of the entertainment industry. Rajat has the habit of inviting entertaining but foolish people to a dinner party every weekend to laugh at them with his friends. He lands up with Vinay Pathak who is a singer.

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