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Forgiving infidelity


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ForgivenessThe drama and the trauma of infidelity is one of the leading causes of relationship failure and divorce. Needs are not being met and sought elsewhere, whether emotionally or physically and pain is inflicted on not only the other partner, but on the partner who had the affair as well.

Not every relationship can endure the pain of infidelity, but the strength and resolve of both partners in rebuilding the foundations of love, trust, and respect through open communications can certainly be accomplished with a sincere effort. Of course, there are cons in contrast with the pros of forgiving infidelity; consider the consequences of the positives and the negative results of each major aspect in a relationship.

Communication breakdown will effectively terminate a relationship in its entirety. When neither partner has a desire to communicate their ill feeling with the other, it eventually leads to more hostility and potential termination in and of the relationship in the future.

By comparison, it is vital that both parties communicate their feelings, their fears, and any angst with each other in order to quell any lingering doubts or hurt feelings. Sincerity in communication instills a sense of openness with one another in the healing relationship, and for many years afterwards.

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Expectations in a Marriage


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Expectations in marriage‘Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus’ is oft repeated refrain whenever there is a conflict of interests in a marriage. Expectations are well… only to be expected!!! After all you expect to get married only once in your lifetime!!! But as expectations go there is bound to be disappointments. It is inevitable. We even expect them – the disappointments.

Nisha Varadarajan bride to be says, “It’s been drummed into me not to expect anything and that I should put my husband and his family first.” This is a familiar scenario and one of the reasons for bickering and dissatisfaction in a marriage. The girl morphs into a faceless identity depending on her many roles in her husband’s family.

But, looking from the man’s point of view- hey! He is equally apprehensive about living up to the expectations of his prospective wife. Nirmal Krishnan, a newly married guy says in a hassled tone, “Whatever I do is never enough for her. How does she expect me to drop all that I know and love and go behind her like a puppy?” Fie on you, Nirmal! Remember you couldn’t wipe off that silly goofy grin on your face when you got engaged!

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Why do you get attracted to someone?


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Getting attractedLook around you and you will find that most of your friends are looking for different kinds of partners. Somebody wants a partner with lots of money. Somebody wants a partner with lots of sex appeal. Somebody wants a partner with great looks.

Somebody wants a partner who is a genius forget the looks. Somebody wants a partner who will only love him or her. And so it goes. Why there is so much dissimilarity in partner preference amongst friends? Friends who are so alike each other in their choices differ greatly when it comes to choice of partners, why?

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Managing House Help


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Housing helpRakesh was puzzled. Things between him and Sunaina, his wife had been going the usual way of newly-weds – some fights, some fun, a lot of passion and love to provide the delicious seasoning to everything. Then, for no apparent reason, they started developing some cold vibes and he was at a loss to explain why.

“At the time, neither of us were able to immediately connect the way the maid was behaving with our personal irritation with each other. It took a few weeks for us to understand and finally decide to get rid of her. After that, we changed the house rules – I am completely in charge of the house help. He never intervenes, unless I specifically ask for help,” reveals Sunaina.

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Spirit and Surrender: The Man-Woman Equation


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Man-Woman EquationWith Jodhaa-Akbar making waves for the on-screen chemistry between Hrithik Roshan and Aishwarya Rai, its worth taking a look at the factors that go into a strong woman’s surrender to the man whom she recognizes as her partner or soul mate. The film has been criticized for being too long and drawn the usual protests from interested parties for its alleged historical inaccuracies, but at least it makes us think once again about the union of two proud and independent spirits.

For a strong woman, the almost lifelong dilemma is not to find the ideal man, but the man strong enough to take her as his partner, without feeling threatened or insecure. In many women’s lives, such a man is never found, and they have to settle for a compromise, losing some of their vitality, and becoming bitter and brittle in the process. For other women who have stayed true to their own natures in spite of the many hurdles in their path, the rewards may come in a surprising form, but they do arrive. Sometimes, the efforts for such self-determination may be so difficult to sustain that they require being single long after one’s friends and classmates are all married. Such women acquire the respect and admiration of peers and colleagues, and may have to make do with this till they find true companions. Total integrity in one’s dealings with others, and most of all, in the visible manifestation of one’s own nature, will draw similar spirits – even though this seems to be taking forever.

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