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Are you ready to give your spouse the space he/she really needs?


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Happy CoupleFamiliarity breeds contempt – sounds familiar. Overcrowding your partner’s life can actually prove adverse. On the other hand we also know `out of sight is out of mind’.

Space is a double edged sword. Not giving it would mean being emotionally distant and by giving too much would mean cramming down the throat. Both could result in estrangement of relationship. The question then is - how much is too much and when is it too little?

The need for space is like a safety valve in a pressure cooker that releases steam when the pressure is too much in the container. Similarly, the need for space in a relationship is actually a self preservation process. It is the need to put things in perspective and also the need to steam off the pressure when things tend to overwhelm you. Both mean there is an issue which requires resolving.

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What makes a succesful marriage


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Successful MarriageToday, with the hustle and bustle of busy lives, there seems to be little time for the marriage relationship. Couples need all the help they can get. Too many couples choose divorce, thinking it is easier than working at the problems. And mistakingly, couples think that if they are having problems, that something is wrong or the marriage was doomed from the get go. This is not so. The fact is that every marriage has rocks in the road. There are simple but effective ways to make your marriage stronger and perhaps even save it.

The first key is to make a commitment to one another. A couple must know that one another is COMMITTED to the marriage. Insecurity sends up steel walls as a defensive mechanism, because without knowing that your partner is totally committed to you, no matter what, you cannot fully give love or receive your spouse’s love. That is the meaning of the marriage vows.

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When partners run races


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Love partnersWhy are we motivated to fall in love so many times in our lives? It is because no matter if you have grown up on the North Pole or in urban Chennai, one of the things that an intimate relationship of love is supposed to provide us with, is a space of absolute safety and comfort. In a truly loving relationship we hope to find a shelter, where it is OK to be completely oneself, faults, warts and all. Love is supposed to conquer the all-too-human tendency to correct, or criticize, at least we hope so!

But there is another c that can come between the full expression of love, or the full realization of that sheltering, comforting aspect of love, and that is ‘Competition’. When love between partners turns competitive, it eats away at the original affection that brought two people together in the first place.

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Was it all an act?


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Was it all an act?How dishonest are people in love! Bit of a shocking accusation, but think about it. People in love, or dating, very often do not show their true colours. And that does not augur well for the future of the relationship. Some examples:

He used to just adore me in slightly daring clothes, but now that we are engaged he wants me to cover up and play the modest maiden. why does he have such double standards?

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How to find the bridge between dreams and goals


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NegativityMost Indians I have discovered, are not only risk-averse but also joy-averse. We have been programmed since childhood, never to trust people, things, money, good fortune… in short life itself.  

So when we grow up and what seems like a golden opportunity, comes our way, we are incredulous. We tell ourselves… “I know this is not for me, It’s too good to be true, there must be a catch somewhere. This may work for others, but not for me.” This is what you would call a negative attitude. And negativity is the worst thing, the ugliest facet of a human being. Because the truth is, you can’t accomplish anything without the power of positive thoughts.

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