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How to cope with your broken heart


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Broken heartWhen a relationship ends, you should take the time to reflect on the reasons that it has ended so that you can learn from your mistakes.

Breakups are a learning opportunity. If you take the time to examine the reasons for your breakup, then you may be able to avoid letting history repeat itself in your dating life. There are two sides to every coin - personal growth can be the flip side to your sadness over the loss of a relationship. What was the cause of your breakup?

If you cheated on your mate, then you might be feeling very guilty and untrustworthy. You can learn from this experience that you have to work on being more honest. If you cheated, you probably were not happy in the relationship to begin with.

However, you did the wrong thing by being unfaithful rather than honest. You should have ended the relationship, not strayed from it. Next time you are in a relationship, make sure that you really want to be there. It is not fair to the person that you are with for you to be unfaithful. If anyone has ever cheated on you, you know how painful it feels. Rather than dwelling on your indiscretion, forgive yourself, and move forward with the conviction that you will not do it again.

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Before marriage: To confess or not to confess?


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To confess or not to confessIn the past, there was an indulgent saying: you can tell a hundred lies to get a marriage done. This saying might not hold well in today’s world, where people don’t take it lightly if they feel cheated. But, as our lives get more complex and marriages are built on more precarious ground, the question to ask is: does it work for a girl to bare her soul about a past love affair or an ugly truth about her family to her husband-to-be before marriage?

Counsellors will caution you to first understand the person you are about to wed, to know and learn his personality and nature, before trying to be Ms Honesty Blaise. Is he the understanding kind or is he a volatile person who might fly off the handle and lash out at you? Or, does he fall somewhere in between and you are unsure about his reaction? Frankly, the situation varies with each person. 

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When, and when not, to get married


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Indian WeddingToday, one out of two marriages will end in divorce. Many people fail to ask themselves why they are getting married and end up marrying for the wrong reasons. Love, of course seems like the best reason. However, it is not. The best reason to marry someone is companionship. For a marriage to be successful, both partners must have a genuine companionship. Of course, there are several reasons why a couple should not get married even if they do have companionship.

People are born with a desire to be loved and give love. It can be the most fulfilling feeling in the world. However, marrying simply because of love is not a good idea. Yes, it may sound very romantic. In fact, it is one of the main reasons people get married. Love alone is not a good reason to get married.

Marriages succeed when there is a strong foundation of companionship built by the couple. A strong foundation for marriage includes compatibility, trust, and communication. Couples should ask themselves three questions to decide if marriage is right for them.

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To lie or not to lie - that is the question


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LiesThe Telegraph reported the case of a couple where the wife, a twenty seven year old lady and the husband, a young man aged thirty two were chatting with each other under pseudo names. The couple poured their hearts out to each other about how each one of them was stuck in an unhappy marriage.

Then came a time when they came so close to one another that they decided to meet and take things forward. But, when they did meet hell broke loose as each of them accused the other lying and cheating the other.

This example might be a little extreme albeit it is true and in the cyber age it is probably not uncommon. However, what is striking is the fact that couples who are looking for comfort outside their respective marital relationships are not lying about their problems but they are lying about their reactions to the situation.

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Being friends for life ensures being happily married forever!


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Married coupleThe dictionary defines a companion as “somebody who accompanies you, spends time with you, or is a friend.” So, it is important that a strong friendship forms the basis of your lifetime companionship.

Ali and Anisha were college sweethearts. After class they spent every waking moment together. Once college was over the two started contemplating marriage. And before the end of the year they got bonded in holy matrimony. This new togetherness gave their friendship a new direction. The couple enjoyed their life together and as time went by they were blessed with two beautiful children. Soon they found that though they had a social life together and were the perfect happy family yet, their friendship seems to have got lost along the way. They hardly spoke of anything other than discussing routine chores.

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